Why Your Facebook Updates Are Not Getting Seen

Social proof

Cats are everywhere on Facebook.

My news feed is usually littered with anything to do with cats, those formulaic “What most people think” meme’s, or “Sh** ____ says” videos.

But have you ever wondered why?

Read on as this post will explain how Facebook decides what updates are displayed in peoples news feeds.

Trust, Credibility and social proof


I speak highly on how to build trust and credibility for your business.

One way to do that is through social proof.

What exactly is social proof?

Wikipedia’s definition (I always trust Wikipedia!):

Social proof, also known as informational social influence, is a psychological phenomenon where people assume the actions of others reflect correct behavior for a given situation.

How does this work in the online world? What does this have to do with Facebook news feeds?


If people see you have testimonials on your website along with lots of followers on Twitter and likes on Facebook, they’ll generally trust you more. Would you agree this is very important if they’re a first time visitor to your website?

Of course it is!

So if visitors to your website, Twitter and Facebook profiles see people like your product or service and speak highly of it, they’ll follow the crowd and trust you more.

Many small business owners know this. I’m sure you do as well.

Knowing this, how can you increase your social proof and get more likes on Facebook?

Reciprocity Influence

You can grow your Facebook page a few ways.

  • ask friends for likes
  • ask random strangers for a like
  • rely on organic growth
  • buy likes

I’m not even going to talk about the last idea. It’s a bad one as this post will explain why.

Growing likes organically can take some time depending on your customer base.

What happens then is that we request that our friends or strangers like our page. In exchange we’ll probably like theirs. That’s the influence of reciprocity.

It’s all in an effort to improve our social proof. The more our fan base grows on Facebook, the more our social proof increases and the more trustworthy we appear.

Recently I’ve seen the influence of reciprocity on LinkedIn. In various groups people link to their Facebook pages in hopes of receiving more likes. They would then reciprocate by “liking” others pages.

I took part in this to build my Facebook page fan base last month.

A harmless gesture right? After all we’re just trying to help each other out!

This is a big mistake though.

Let me explain.

Facebook EdgeRank aka the Gatekeeper

We need a gatekeeper when on Facebook.

That or our feeds would be jammed with updates from our friends and pages we like. Most people spend only a few minutes on Facebook and they want to see the best of the best. That’s where our gatekeeper friend EdgeRank comes in.

I’ve already talked about why it’s important to earn the right be followed online as a way to ensure your status updates are seen within your fans news feeds.

So basically our news feeds aren’t really news feeds. EdgeRank determines what we see in our news feeds by using an algorithm. I’ll let Kelvin Newman explain EdgeRank at Econsultancy so read up on that.

If you don’t want to, I’ll quickly explain.

Three things are weighed into the EdgeRank algorithm:

  • Affinity – Calculates how friendly you are with someone or page. The more you interact with them, the more you see their updates.
  • Weight – Determines what type of content shows up more in a news feed. Videos, photos and links have a better chance to show up in a feed. Weight can improve over time as your content or status update receives more likes, comments and shares.
  • Time – The fresher the content the more seen it gets. Pretty straight forward.

Does it make sense now why anything to do with cats or those “What people think” memes and those “Sh** ____ says” videos are always seen?

People are engaging with those types of posts! This means their EdgeRank is higher than your thoughtful and useful status update.

Frustrating isn’t it?

What People Think Meme

How does EdgeRank effect your updates and who sees them?

The people who have engaged with your updates in the past will see more in the future. This is the affinity score of EdgeRank. Pretty easy and obviously what we all want!

However if someone has never engaged with your updates in the past, they’re not going to see others. They’ll see a few upon liking your page. But when they don’t engage, Facebook knows this and they cut your future updates from that person’s newsfeed.

Your updates will be replaced with popular updates from their friends or other pages they’ve liked. Facebook is simply trying to give people relevant and popular updates in their newsfeed.

This is a story of quality over quantity. You shouldn’t be worried about your social proof and how many likes your Facebook page has. It’s great that you have 1000+ fans on Facebook. If you reciprocated likes to get large portion of your fans, it’s not helping you.


Obviously they’re not seeing your updates. Therefore they’re not sharing your updates and improving your pages awareness.

Another reason is those people who visited your page organically might wonder why you have 1000+ fans but no interaction. They’ll think you’re boring and thus not click the like button. After all, who likes boring brands?

Focus on finding raving fans. And engage with those current ones you have.

One of my favorite quotes on social media is from Gary Vaynerchuk.

“It’s not the number of followers you have or “likes” you get, it’s the strength of the bond with your followers.”

This quote applies to business in general not just social media. Its part of the out care your competition mentality I want business owners to adopt.

So how can you improve your EdgeRank score?

Turn up the foreplay on EdgeRank


  1. Avoid asking friends who are not emotionally invested in your business. You want the friends that will actually comment, like and share your content.
  2. Stay away from reciprocation likes from people you don’t know. My LinkedIn example from above is exactly what I am talking.
  3. Read my this post for a practical way on how to charm the Facebook gatekeeper, Edgerank.

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What do you think?

Are your Facebook updates getting a good amount of engagement?

Stop Your Search Rankings From Treading Water

Stop Your Search Rankings From Treading Water

Potential clients are searching your product or service.

No longer are they doing that through a phone book.

They’re searching for you online and that’s what makes search engine optimization (SEO) so important.

One problem though.

SEO is hard to understand.

I’ve talked to a few business owners lately about SEO.

They’ve all told me that they don’t understand how it really works. This isn’t good since it’s such an important component to online marketing.

The time has come for me to educate and simplify search engine optimization.

I’ve already talked about the stepping stone to any SEO campaign, keyword research. Today I’m going to talk about the second step and why your SEO campaign might be treading water like our polar bear friend above. If you have a blog, this step will also keep people on your website longer and give them the information they’re after so read on!

Break through the noise and create engaging advertisements

Increase your advertising ROI

Advertising your business is a must.

When you’re new you want to tell everyone why they should check you out. I can’t blame you there!

Maybe sales are sluggish and need you more clients.

Perhaps you have a sale or product you want everyone to know about.

No matter the reason you have to get the word out. Advertising does just that.

Sure I think internet marketing is great but advertising can be effective.

But the cookie cutter “Here’s my business and contact information, please call us” advertising doesn’t work anymore.

Let me explain.

Advertising needs to engage

It’s a fact that I dislike 95% of advertising. Almost all advertisements lack creativity and can be ignored. Actually all advertisments can be ignored except website pop ups! I’ll save that for another day however.

I’m sure my feelings on advertising are shared by many others.

How often do you say to yourself after seeing an ad “Yeah, I want to start doing business there” or “I must find out more” and call that business or visit their website? I bet I’ve been on more dates in the last year which for the record has been a measly two.

As a society we ignore advertising. It’s been jammed down our thoughts for far too long. How often do you even take the time to look at ads anymore?

So how you can break through the noise and engage people with your advertising? What does it take to get some serious return on investment from any advertisement you run?

I’ll show you a great example in a second so read on!

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Introducing Meaningful Advertising

Once in a while I flip through my local paper to see if anything catches my eye. A month back I found this advertisement.

advertising that connects

Let’s be clear, it’s goods but it can be better. I’ll explain why later but it’s a step in the right direction.

So what makes this ad meaningful and better than the majority of ads?

  • It educates
  • It never tries to push
  • It opens the sales funnel

It educates

Meaningful marketers are always willing to educate potential clients. They’re thinking about their clients and what questions they have. In this case it’s something as common as using eye drops.

People are generally looking for information on your product or service before buying. Often times they’ll do research on the internet. The best way to get in front of them and answer any questions is by blogging for business.

This ad is essentially what a blog post would look like. It’s meaningful because it educates someone and improves their life. After all no one would engage with this ad if they didn’t know how to use eye drops since that’s the title!

It never tries to push

Since the begin on advertising companies have been pushing their products on us. That has to change if you want to engage more people.

During the advertisement not once do you see “See us for all your eye care needs” do you? The concept is certainly there but it’s subtle.

This is the same thing done by Victoria Transmission Auto care with their car safety classes for young drivers.

Dr. Taylor could have easily peppered this ad with more pushing. But he didn’t.

At the bottom of the ad his clinics contact details are listed. That’s the only time. He didn’t even offer a call to action which is very passive. Too passive though.

He’s simply educating people. If the reader wants to know more, perhaps they’ll visit his clinics website or call him next time for an eye care appointment.

It opens the sales funnel

Too much focus is put in closing the sale now a days. I know it’s all about sales but if you’re too pushy, people will shy away.

When people come to a website or see an ad, they want more.

Can they see photos of your products? Can they read or listen to what satisfied clients have to say? How about learning more about your particular area of expertise?

By letting people see those things you are opening the sales funnel. You’re inviting them to learn more.

Without doing those things it will be tough to open the sales funnel. Chances are they’ll flip past your advertisement and leave your website within 10 seconds.

When you open the sales funnel your ROI greatly increases. People will read your ad and stay on your website longer. This is taking advantage of every person who engages with your marketing.

An Opportunity Missed

I did say this ad was a step in the right direction towards meaning. There is something missing here.

The odds of someone needing an eye care appointment at the time of this ad are slim. That doesn’t mean they won’t think of his clinic when they do. But how could he make sure they don’t forget about him?

Drive them to his website for more education. Since the chances of someone remembering his phone number are low he needs the reader to take action and visit his website for more education on eye care. This will also help build trust and credibility with the new visitor.

The next step after awareness in the sales funnel is turning someone into a lead.

Here’s what Dr. Taylor could do to increase his leads.

Call to action

Dr. Taylor and the Mayfair Optometric Clinic need a better call to action to start with. Something simple could be “Visit our website for more eye care and health tips”. No matter what you want to get people back to your website.


If he is putting in the effort to write an article for an ad, why isn’t he blogging? Someone who actually reads this ad all the way through is engaged. What do you do in this position? Give them more! By inviting those readers back to his site for more articles on eye care and health.

Email opt in forms

Email opt in forms offer a person to get updates from your site. It’s a simple way of lead capturing but very overlooked. If he is utilizing an email newsletter they could grow their email list. This obviously gives them the ability to market to that engaged person for a lifetime and hopefully turn them into a lifetime client.

Hopefully you’ve learnt a lot on how to increase advertising ROI. It takes more to stand out from your competition. By creating advertisements like this example, you’ll be well on your way to more meaning and more sales!

What kind of offline advertising do you do?

Do you see a good amount of ROI from it?

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Is your businesses website a sieve?

How to capture leads from your website

It’s important to have a website in any business.

It’s also important to capture leads in business.

Combining the two seems automatic doesn’t it?

You’d be surprised at how many websites fail to capture leads. The last statement can also apply to a physical store front.

If someone visits your website or store you have to do everything to get their contact details. Ok, not everything but you must try to build a relationship with this person. The only way to do that is by getting their contact details.

This is what I mean by asking is your businesses website a sieve. Is it letting people drop by without trying anything to capture their details?

If 100 people visit your website a month (you have Google analytics setup don’t you?) and you don’t have any way to capture their contact details you’re missing out. The visitor may not be in the market for what you’re selling now but they have come to your site or store so there is something intriguing there.

Get that email!

When you have their contact details – email is usually the most common form given out – you are able to market to that person one on one and for a long period of time. For the record I would be hesitant to ask for a person’s phone number. Most people are more comfortable with email starting out.

Being able to market to a person for a long time is a huge factor to building a loyal community online. That’s assuming you provide meaningful content for that person to engage with.

Combining blog posts with emails is a great way to keep people up to date with your business or industry. You can send out weekly or monthly newsletters, your latest blogs posts or just useful links you’ve come across over the internet.

Using any of the suitable email automation programs allows you to do numerous things with an email list. The most important thing is tracking and analyzing data. Who opens your email and along with what links they click.

Being able to track your progress is pivotal towards success online and off.

What if they don’t give it up?

Cue the dating analogies!

You have to be patient and not go for the email right away. Don’t you get turned off when you visit a website and within five seconds they want you to join their email newsletter? You don’t know anything about them and they’re already pushing.

Talk about coming on to strong! You wouldn’t ask for a second date one minute into the first one would you?

When someone comes to your website and they see you want their contact details but they’re reluctant, what can you do?

You have three options…

1) Write meaningful blog posts

2) Give something away for free

3) Do both 1 and 2

Today it’s all about offering value in exchange for getting someone’s email address.

Back in the late 90’s everybody loved email. Then spammers caught on and now everyone dreads email!

As a side note I’ll be addressing how to write intriguing titles for emails as well as blog posts in my email newsletter. This will help you get more of your emails and content opened and shared. Be sure to subscribe to my newsletter below so you don’t miss out.

Meaningful blog posts

A blog when done proper can provide all sorts of value. When I mean proper I’m talking about creating meaningful content and links within your posts to other posts so people can stay on your blog longer.

Whether you educate them or entertain them, it’s easier to get their contact details once they begin to trust you more. They want to see you know what you’re talking about, are a real person and that they can trust you.

All those can be done when you are writing with meaning. I’ve talked a little bit about how blogging for business is important and I mentioned how a realtor could write meaningful blog posts already.

You have to put the effort into each blog post you write. Treat it like it’s an article going into a newspaper. A lot of people would be reading that article so you would want to impress them right? Each and every blog post deserves the same attention.

It is after all digital and never going to get recycled so give them your best stuff!


I had a chat with a mortgage broker towards the end of November. He was mentioning a broker friend of his who had been getting consulting tips from a successful internet marketer.

One thing they do is offer each visitor some value for giving up their email address. The most common things are:

  • eBook
  • Free report
  • Free consultation


Ebooks have been around for close to 10 years now. They’re easy to produce and don’t cost much to make except for effort. An ebook can really set you apart from the competition and show your visitors that you truly care about them.

They don’t have to be the same length as a physical book but they do have to showcase your knowledge of your product or industry. See what others are doing in your industry and find out if they give away an eBook. If they do grab it to see what it takes to produce a great eBook.

If you have the time creating an eBook is the best choice.

Free Report

I’ve seen a few internet marketers during my research who produce free reports. These are good if your product or service offering is really small. Top 10 lists are great for reports and intrigue people to sign up for an email list.

If you’re an insurance broker you could write on on the top 10 reasons why insurance claims fail. A small grocery store could write on a report on the top 10 reasons to buy local.

Free reports offer a great alternative to eBooks as they don’t require much time. Topics can range from a lot of different things but the key is to educate and provide value.

Free Consultation

Lately I’ve come across service providers who offer free consultations. This is a sneaky way to get someone to offer their email address in exchange for free consulting.

A good route to go if you provide a service but be warned that people may not like receiving your emails because you weren’t up front and honest with them.

Tag Team

Now if you have a blog and some sort of free give away, you’ll be well on your way to capturing more leads for your business.

This method does require a lot of effort but the rewards are huge! You’ll gain trust and your credibility will soar. These are two major components to meaningful marketing.

When it comes down to it you have to offer value everywhere you go. This can only help but open the sales funnel and allow you the ability to market to your new lead for a long time.

The baseball glove of your website

Earlier I talked about your website being a sieve. That can all change.

Once you’ve implemented all the steps above you can now play catch! Opt in forms are the method of catching or capturing a leads details.

EZLeadCapture.com is a great way to not only

Aweber is the email automation software I use. Once signing you can create custom opt in forms or choose from pre made template.

These opt in forms capture a leads contact details and stores them back at you Aweber account. Don’t ask me to explain how this magic happens as I’m still mesmerized by the radio and cassette tapes!

Common places to put opt in forms on a website are:

  • along the side of the page where the reader can see it
  • in blog posts like I have done already
  • at the top of the page so people can see it right away

These places are all fine but the key will come down to providing a reason or incentive for someone to subscribe.

Well I’ve covered all I wanted and I really hope you’ve enjoyed this post. My goal is to not only help you market with more meaning but to also make sure you get the most out of your marketing.

Lead capturing is very important and I wanted to talk about ways you can increase your chances of getting peoples contact details.

If you liked this post and what the site is all about, please spread the word around your social networks by sharing it. It would mean an awful lot!

So how would you grade your websites ability to capture leads?

Are there any methods I’m missing for capturing leads online?

Image courtesy Richard Summers

7 Examples of Meaningful Marketing

I want you to really examine these examples. They’re just a few of the all stars when it comes to meaningful marketing.

I hope to spark some ideas so you can start marketing with more meaning!

Below are 7 examples of big brands and small businesses from different industries.

Think Traffic

Meaningful Marketing examples

Why it’s meaningful

I would be silly if I didn’t mention Think Traffic and their awesome blog on building a better blog. Corbett Barr has been helping people build cool stuff online for over a couple years now.

Think Traffic is his way of offering valuable advice and inspiration on growing a thriving blog. There’s no sales tactics here.

Corbett along with Caleb Wojick from Pocket Changed simply create epic content that has helped hundreds of people including myself start a blog that matters.

The meaning is in the epic free content they provide. They never try to push you into their product which the start a blog that matters course. Instead they let their content build trust and credibility.

Nike+ and Apple

Nike and Meaningful Marketing

Why it’s meaningful

Ever since they told us all to Just Do It Nike’s aim has been to improve people’s health. That in itself is one of the main objectives of any meaningful marketing campaign.

If you’re not sure what Nike+ does it’s a small chip that goes into any Nike shoe. There is another chip that inserts into any Ipod, Iphone or Ipod touch. It then tracks your run or workout and users can upload their run or workout on the Nike+ website.

It suggests songs for a workout or run based on your intensity level. You can also have a voice chime into to tell you pick it up if you need a boost.

The context is to improve people’s health but to do so using Nike+ shoes.

Victoria Transmission Auto Care

Meaningful Marketing

Why it’s meaningful

I can only imagine the fear my parents had when I got my driver’s license. Victoria Transmission & Auto Care aim to squander that fear with education based marketing for young drivers.

They’ve teamed up with the largest driving school in Victoria to educate young drivers. The clinics are free to attend and student drivers have the opportunity to learn basic car maintenance, how to check oil and fluid levels, how to check tire pressure, how to change a tire on their own vehicle, and how to stay safe around their vehicle at all times. There is also an opportunity for students to learn how to run their vehicles more efficiently, and to be more environmentally sensitive when it comes to maintenance and servicing.

Providing a free service that helps new drivers learn more about car safety and maintenance is meaningful is so many ways.

The Corcoran Group

Visual Content Marketing Example

Why it’s meaningful

The Corcoran Group sells real estate in New York. Instead of simply posting videos and photos of the houses they list, they’ve gone with a different approach.

They use Google+ to promote the city of New York and the places that make it great. Realtors sell homes but they also should be selling the neighborhoods and cool local spots more.

This is a great way to showcase the many great places to see and things to do in particular neighborhoods of New York.

River Pools – Virginia USA

content marketing example

Why it’s meaningful

Marcus Sheridan is the owner of River Pools. A few years ago his business was close to being all but dead. That was until he turned discovered the world of education marketing.

He started up a blog on the company website and geared it towards educating and answering questions that people have when learning about fiberglass pools. From his blog he’s been able to utilize SEO and target people typing in specific keywords from all over Virginia and Maryland. Once on his site they find more than enough useful information.

This education marketing strategy helped turn around River Pools into the leading fiberglass pool installer in the US and maybe world! The blog also helps build trust and credibility as can be seen by an interactive map on the homepage showing hundreds of homes they’ve installed pools at.

From his blog Marcus has been able to share his story and is one of the leaders in content marketing with his blog the Sales Lion.

Golf Digest


Why it’s meaningful

Meaningful marketing can also be content that entertains and engages people. I’m sure we’ve all seen the video Sh** Girls Say and the many clones. Here’s another!

I posted this one because I’m a golfer and it’s spot on! Golf Digest is the leading publication when it comes to golf. They’ve done a fantastic job creating an entertaining video that connects very deeply with golfers.

They’ve also created a hashtag and way for people to engage with them online.

Golf Digest

Guinness Guide to Oysters


Why it’s meaningful

Although it’s an advertisement it’s educating the reader on the types of Oysters. Educating a potential client is a great way to build trust and credibility.

Another reason why it’s meaningful is it’s outside the context of typical advertising which is getting people to buy a Guinness. This advertisement is doing it in a very clever way. It’s suggesting that all these Oysters would taste a whole lot better being washed down with a nice Guinness!

What are some other examples of meaningful marketing that I’m missing?

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